Lori-Ann Claerhout: authenticity explorer, order seeker, meaning maker.
Feeling a little grumpy? Or duller than your normal, sparkling self?
. . . is it possible that you are also carrying pain?
I believe that pain comes in many flavours. There’s the outright stabbing pain—like the kind felt when you shift something in your back. There’s dull pain, like a throbbing headache. There’s the indescribable emotional pain of significant loss. There’s the pain-in-the-neck pain of not finding a parking spot or having your second head cold this season. There’s pain-over-time of real and felt injustices, the kind that can accumulate over years and bend us over with their weight. And, surely; sadly; many more.
When we feel pain, we tend to respond less kindly, to ourselves and others, than normal. We can move into judging. Pain zaps energy, leaving less for kind conversation, or giving toward others.
I felt pain this week. The kind of low back, difficult-to-stand-up-straight pain. The kind that makes it an effort to get into the car and then also to reach out and close the door. I got quiet. I felt like I didn’t have the energy to make a meal, let alone chit-chat while making it. And I didn’t really notice until it went away.
Thought for me: I can be kinder when I encounter people who are less-than-their-stellar-selves. I can wonder, “What kind of pain are they feeling?” And, if a friend is up for it, I can offer an ear to listen or a shoulder for them to lean on.
Thought for you: what kind of pain are you feeling? Is there a way, after acknowledging it, that you can find help to release it?
I wish painlessness for you.Read More
This isolated vocal track of David Bowie and Freddie Mercury went around this week, reminding of what a beautifully artistic song this is. Here we go: “Under Pressure.”
We saw Ben Sollee this summer, and his song “Electrified” has been rattling around in my brain ever since.
He does a chunk of his touring by bike, “Because it slows us down.”
Hmmm. I’m thinking about slow-down, presence, and what it all means today.
His beauty-filled TEDxSanDiego performance has me inspired to dig into my TEDxGarneauWomen work today. Further, in what way will I slow down?Read More